Within the rich blend of 21st Century Sexology’s unique methodology, I touch the hearts and minds of those seeking to better understand and transform themselves, their partner, their relationships, and their sexual communications.
How My Practice Works
Sexuality, a cornerstone of human experience (or a core part of human life), unites us all through our shared bond that transcends borders and cultures, embracing the richness of diversity that brightens our world. 21CS’s message, that we are all more alike than different, stands as a beacon of unity amid our varied journeys and histories, and empowers us to explore the intricate interplay of our sexual-selves. At the heart of 21CS lies a deep dedication to fostering positive healthy communication, dismantling taboos, and nurturing emotional well-being, all of which affects and impacts many aspects of our mental health. Using our unique empathic approach, drawing from our decades of clinical and research experience, I guide my clients through their fears, concerns, and communication challenges, to slowly disempower their ego-selves, and gain a new awareness and understanding of their spiritual essence. I treat each individual and couple as the unique adult they have become, recognizing their challenges and successes, and celebrating them together.
My Values and Focus
“Who am I and who am I in this relationship?” Within 21CS, a realm of personal exploration awaits, helping individuals and couples to begin to answer these two most important questions that often go unspoken, but that everybody wants an answer to. Together, we will seek out and discover your own answers, and uncover the depths of your desires, preferences, and intricate facets of your humanity and your sexuality.
Personal Discovery
Personal empowerment is the ability to identify, understand, and express your passion(s). Our sexuality is a valuable and important part of our personal power. How to understand and utilize this power for yourself and the people in your life, is what we are here to help you with. Those who understand and embrace their authentic sexual-selves, develop an empowered identity that can be used for the good of themselves and others. Guided by 21CS, you will navigate this voyage with newfound confidence and unwavering self-assuredness.
Empowerment
A treasure trove of precise and enlightening insights into sexual identity awaits, within 21CS offering. By examining and deconstructing myths and misconceptions that our culture presents, we become stronger and happier with our sexual-selves. Both couples and individuals gain a comprehensive understanding of the multifaceted tapestry of human sexuality, armed with knowledge that dispels misconceptions and myths.
Knowledge and Awareness
21CS extends as an inclusive haven, a sanctuary where your unique sexual identity is not only acknowledged but celebrated. Maleness and femaleness are two sides of the same coin. They are both the same and different. Engaging with our inner male and female resources, can help us seamlessly intertwined them with a compassionate and empathic community.
Inclusive Environment
A strong foundation for meaningful and enriching relationships is established through the understanding of one’s own sexual-self. The more we understand and accept our own sexuality, without shame or judgement, the easier it becomes to accept our partners. 21CS equips individuals and couples with the tools to communicate effectively, establish boundaries, and cultivate profound connections with their partners.
Healthy Relationships
An important goal of 21CS is to help you foster an unwavering sense of confidence and self-acceptance in both your humanity and sexual identity. This newfound confidence expands across all spheres of life, enhancing overall wellbeing.
Confidence and Self-Acceptance
Learning to confront common challenges associated with sexual difficulties and identities is one pivotal area within 21CS. Whether gripping with common problems such as erectile difficulties, lack of arousal and/or orgasm, conflicts over frequency, societal expectations, self-doubt, or any other issue, through your journey of self-discovery, we support you as an unwavering beacon of guidance and support.
Navigating Challenges
Delving into the intricate depth of one’s sexual-self unveils an enriching path of personal growth that expands to and past your sexual-self. 21CS encourages introspection, self-reflection, as well as a profound connection with inner desires and emotions. When this is done with kindness and compassion towards one’s-self and one’s-partner, there is no limit to the depth of joy and love that can be experienced.
Personal Growth
Through engagement with 21CS, individuals become catalysts in dismantling the stigmas surrounding discussions on sexual identity. Stigmas such as homophobia, biphobia, sexual-shame, ageism, physical disability, LGBTQ+, etc., can be overcome with knowledge, openness, and compassion. When you can actively participate in these discussions, you foster a personal culture of candidness and acceptance, with far-reaching positive effects on yourself, your partner, and society.
Stigma Reduction
At the heart of 21CS, is my invitation for you to embark on a lifelong voyage of self-discovery and evolution. The human mind, heart, and soul are bottomless. Continuous engagement unravels new layers of sexual identity, facilitating adaptation and growth, while understanding and embracing one’s authentic true-self, sexual-self, and that of one’s intimate partner, leading potentially, to the soulmate experience